Wednesday, July 25, 2018

Guest Post and Giveaway: Welcome K.A. Emmons!

People often ask me what my favorite thing about writing is - actually, I think most writers get this question a good deal, and there’s a lot of different responses.

There are many things to love about writing (not that I’m biased or anything). “The writing process” as we all know consists of lots of tea (or in my case, coffee), hours spent indoors by a window listening to soundtracks in the heavenly light, and finally publishing whatever it is you’re working on and watching your lovely book climb to the top of the New York Times best sellers list.

What? I can have ideals, can’t I?

But really, there’s so much to the “process”... the dreaming, the lying awake at night with this story bubbling over inside you, just bursting to get out into the world. The hours of writing, and editing, and proofreading. The many technical aspects of publishing.

There’s so much to it. And yet, when I’m asked what I love about writing books and stories - what my favorite thing about it is, none of these practical things spring to mind.

I’ve often described writing as “chasing euphoria” and I think that would have to be my favorite part. The feelings and emotions and *joy* that come with writing a good book and telling a good story. There’s something so powerful in words - something like dynamite. Something that reaches out and touches our lives and the lives of those who read it.

I love to say “words are more than words” because it’s true. Words can take us anywhere and everywhere. They can introduce us to new ideas - new worlds, in which we are the kings and the queens of a promised land. Words transport us. Words teach us. Words change us.

Words in fact, are infinite. And so as an author, the empowered feeling I get - the sheer joy I get when I sit down in the morning with a cup of coffee to write is immeasurable. And that’s my favorite part of writing.

And I think there’s such a lesson to be learned from the joy writing can bring both the writer and the reader, and that is the fact that our words are important. They are vitally important. Whether you are a writer of fiction, or a blogger, or even someone who posts on social media - what we write, what we put out into the world has the ability to make an impact on someone’s life for the better.

Words are more than words. Use them wisely.

When she’s not hermiting away in her colorfully-painted home office writing her next science fiction, passionate story-teller and adventurer Kate Emmons is probably on the road for a surf or hiking trip, listening to vinyls, or going for a power run. Emmons’ debut novel The Blood Race is the first book in her YA science fiction/fantasy thriller series. Get connected with Kate on your favorite social platform, and be sure to check out her website!

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What's your favorite thing about writing? How have authors like Kate inspired you and your books?


Thursday, July 12, 2018

Cinder Taught Me About the Holy Spirit

I almost stopped reading Cinder two chapters in.

Sci-fi has never been my favorite genre. I’m that stereotypical girl who reads Anne of Green Gables, watches dramas about love and gardening, and likes any story with little plot and lots of happiness and flowers. I get stressed out by stories easily, and I like to feel good when I finish one.

The day after I finished reading Cinder (the book I almost stopped reading), I remember thinking about how spiritually refreshed I felt after reading that story... but why?

Cinder is a sci-fi retelling of Cinderella—it’s about a girl who’s half robot-cyborg and works as an impoverished mechanic and slave to her evil stepmother. There’s action, outspread plague, death, and cool sci-fi things like ports, space ships, and alien moon people who have mind manipulating powers. I enjoyed the story a lot and I’ve been devouring the next books in the series.

Through Cinder, author Marissa Meyer has touched me in a deep way and I am so thankful the Lord brought this book into my life. Cinder showed me some incredible things about the Holy Spirit and God’s heart, and I’m excited to share those things with you.

*Spoilers ahead! Proceed with caution*

God Turns us From Orphans to Heirs 

I think cyborgs are cool, but the Earthen Union sure doesn’t. Viewed as only partially human, Linh Cinder is treated like an outcast. Her cyborg parts were installed to keep her alive after a tragic childhood accident. Although the metal and wires keep her thinking and breathing, she isn’t accepted by society and is mistreated by many.

Cinder is an orphan who knows little about her origin, or her future. As if cyborg isn’t enough, she eventually finds out she’s also one of those alien mind manipulating people (Lunars), which makes her even more of an outcast, and a fugitive.

Like Cinder, we begin as outcast, orphans, and fugitives before God. But when we receive Christ, He makes us heirs to His Kingdom and His throne.

Well, there’s an heir in Cinder’s story too—it turns out under all that dirt, metal pieces, and mechanic oil, Cinder is actually a princess. They call her “The Lunar Heir,” a legend, and the only power strong enough to overthrow crazy Lunar Queen Levana. 

"For once you were not a people, but now you are the people of God; You had not received mercy, but now you have received mercy."  - 1 Peter 2:10

"The Spirit Himself testifies with our spirit that we are God's children. And if we are children, then we are heirs: heirs of God and co-heirs with Christ." - Romans 8:17

The Holy Spirit Allows us to See Truth Hidden Under The Devil’s Lies

There are a couple of really caring doctors in Cinder’s life. After she mauled and almost killed by Queen Levana as a child, Cinder underwent an eight year reconstruction surgery, where her body was pieced back together and fitted with some of (what she doesn’t know) is world’s best technology. She has a lie detector, a device installed into her spine that keeps her from using her “Lunar gift,” and special technology that keeps her brain from being mind-manipulated. Her intensive surgery saved her life and equipped her for a future fighting against a powerful and evil queen.

Cinder’s identity has even been kept from herself—she doesn’t know she’s the Lunar Heir. However, when she finally encounters Queen Levana (who casually still wants to kill her), Cinder is able to use her cyborg parts to defend herself. Her lie detector goes off, her programming keeps her from being manipulated by Levana’s bioelectric waves, and Cinder’s mind is able to recreate a picture of what Levana truly looks like—without her glamor.

She’s able to determine the truth.

Even though Cinder doesn’t know yet, she’s been lovingly protected and highly equipped with technology that helps her fight her greatest enemy. Likewise, the Holy Spirit is lovingly given to us by God to equip us to fight our own greatest enemy, and to discover the truth that sets us free. We may not know we’re royalty, and we may not know how or who to fight—but when our spirits are in danger, and when we’re led to believe lies, the Holy Spirit gives us the tools and equipment necessary to win our battles and to find the truth of Christ. 

But when He, the Spirit of Truth comes, He will guide you into all the truth; for He will not speak on His own initiative, but whatever He hears, He will speak and He will disclose to you what is to come." - John 16: 13

Have you read Cinder? How has God used fictional stories to speak truth in your life? Let's chat! 

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Thursday, June 14, 2018

How to Be A Confident Writer (and Why It's Important)

Over the past weeks, I've received more opinions about my book than I probably ever have. Reaching Home is out on submission again, and the process is more intimidating than I remember.
Meanwhile, I've been spending most of my evenings reviewing submissions myself. I've sent and received rejection letters, and I've communicated with so many authors about their stories and dreams for their books.

I'm a big believer in having confidence in my work, but I've noticed recently how rare this is for authors. Did you know confidence actually helps you sell your story to an agent or publisher? It does!

Not only is it beneficial to you in the traditional publishing world, but confidence is just as important for your own writing health, too. It helps you become more productive with the story you're creating, and it helps you make the right decisions for your plot and characters.

But how can you gain confidence in your project? Here are some of my strategies...

Work Hard Enough to Be Confident.

Give your project the time, love, and attention that it needs, and don't submit your book to prying eyes until it's ready. Get yourself used to editing, and edit multiple drafts on your own. Spend time and energy learning exactly what you want from your plot and characters, and write accordingly. It's no secret that books take years to write, so give yourself grace and let it take time. Work hard and work smart. Write and edit something you'll be proud of.

Filter Opinions.

Once you are ready to show your project around, pick only a few select people to read and review. Too many opinions will overwhelm you and cause you to focus on parts of your story that probably don't matter yet. Everyone is different, so each reader will want something different from your book. That's a beautiful thing, but it isn't beneficial for the beginning stages of a manuscript. You need to create an environment of focus for your project where you can take the time to understand what you wrote and why. Focusing in on your theme and understanding your novel will help you gain confidence and will be better for your project in the long run.

Filter Suggestions.

I like comparing things to scripture, and one of the verses I often think of is Ephesians 4:14: "so that we may no longer be children, tossed to and fro by the waves and carried about by every wind of doctrine..." Similarly, I don't want to be "tossed" by every wind of writing suggestions, either. It's important to choose carefully which suggestions to fabricate into your story, and which to leave out. Don't just take someone's suggestion for granted, think each one through carefully before you apply it to your manuscript.

Recognize that just because someone might be a professional or a friend doesn't mean they know what's right for your book. I've had prestigious writers and agents give me very bad advice for my story. I've had others give me great advice. Always be humble and an eager learner, but remember that some people aren't going to understand your story like you do. And that's okay. Be confident enough in your book to know what's good for it... and what might not be.

Have a Best Friend who Understand You and Your Book.

I'm blessed with a lot of creative best friends. But even if your best friend isn't creative, they know you better than anyone else. Keep them updated with your book's progress, and run all your new ideas by them. A lot of times when I do this, I realize my best friends know me even better than I know myself. They recognize whether new ideas are "me" or not, and they'll tell me straight whether or not they can see me writing them. They bring me back to my center, too, always reminding me why I write, and what my goals are. The end is what matters, so have best friends who help you remember your end goals. Having someone close to you reaffirming new ideas and suggestions will make you more confident, and make you a better writer.

Don't Take Rejection Too Hard.

Seriously, don't. An agent or publisher probably isn't rejecting for the reason you think. It's pretty likely your book just isn't what they're looking for right now, or your story doesn't fit with the ones the publisher likes to put out. Sometimes rejections are even good things because they show you that your book wasn't meant for that house. It's really okay. It's much better to find a great publishing house who loves your book and understands stories like yours.

Don't Be Cocky.

Lastly, don't be cocky. I know I'm talking a lot about confidence, and filtering opinions, but don't take it to the next level and be cocky about your story. Confidence and cockiness are two separate things. Always be thinking, but always be open to new ideas. There's forever more to learn in the writing field, and there will always be people who can teach you. Listen to them.

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What are some ways you gain 
confidence as a writer?


Wednesday, May 30, 2018

Blog Tour: Taylor's List of Books that Won't Make You Squirm

I introduced you guys to Taylor in a guest post last Christmas. She's an incredible YA author, a wonderful friend, And... she just released her first book, Porch Swing Girl


I love my rural town of Roseburg, Oregon. Surrounded by rolling hills and acres of uninhabited forests, it’s a wonderful, whimsical place to live. But, between the city’s recently-shut-down-library and small, stuffy used bookstore, there aren’t a lot of places for me to quench my literary thirst. 

That’s why I am nothing short of thrilled when I get to visit a Barnes & Noble. Yes—a real bookstore. With new books.


A while ago, I had the opportunity to go to one of these magical bookstores while on a trip to the city. What did I find?


Books with gorgeous covers, scintillating blurbs, all written by authors with an impressive collection of accolades. One look at the YA section nearly sent me into a frenzied happy dance—the kind where my eyes turn into little hearts and I start dancing from bookshelf to bookshelf like the kooky book nerd that I am.

Then I stopped.

Picked up one of the books.

Gave it a closer look—a harder look.

What I saw made me want to cover my eyes and wash out my brain. (And cry. Always cry.)

These books—these wonderful works of YA fiction, dressed so smartly with hardback covers and glossy book sleeves—were filled with garbage. Sure, the prose was great, the plot was intriguing—but the dialogue? It left my eyes feeling dirty. And the supposedly sweet romantic trysts were slightly more…graphic.

I walked out of that store fuming—and without a single book to add to my TBR.

Maybe you’ve experienced something similar.

Maybe you’ve cracked open a much-anticipated new book, only to groan in dismay after the first few pages. Maybe you’ve gotten discouraged when you run out of clean, uplifting YA books and must resort to (gasp!) re-reading. Maybe…

Maybe you’re sick of it.

And that’s why I’m here today. I want to encourage you—show you that there are still pure and lovely books out there for you. They might be harder to find than other, less appropriate, books, but they are out there. And it is my greatest pleasure to introduce you to some of my favorites.


Without further ado…

I present to you…


Taylor’s List of Books-That-Won’t-Make-You-Squirm-Or-Wash-Your-Brain-Out-With-Soap 

The Katie Parker novels—these light, sweet, and touching books are written from a Christian worldview, yet they don’t hesitate to tackle tough issues. But even when characters are struggling, the author keeps things rolling with wacky side characters (like Katie’s nutty foster-grandma) and quirky descriptive prose.

This Quiet Sky—aah, this book makes my heart sing, ache, soar, and weep—and all in under two hundred pages!! It consistently ranks as one of my all-time favorite books and, even though it’s short, the story is well-rounded and beautifully heartbreaking. Words cannot express how terribly wonderful this book is, so I have to trust that you will buy it and see for yourself.

First Date (and the other two books in the trilogy)—if you dream of going behind-the-scenes of a reality TV show (or maybe competing on one yourself) then these books are for you! They’re filled with suspense, gossip, and glamour, but they’re also—you guessed it!—squeaky clean. The characters all feel like close friends and the plot is filled with all the excitement of a real TV show. Bonus? No commercials!

The Tethered World Trilogy—just a heads-up: I am NOT a fantasy buff…but the mysterious Tethered World drew me in like no other magical realm has ever done before. The premise was so intriguing, the plot so well-crafted, that I couldn’t help but fall in love with this trilogy. So take it from me (an anti-fantasy girl) that this series is not one to miss!

The Mother-Daughter Book Club Series—these books are so cute, sweet, innocent, and…dare I say perfect?!?! I highly recommend that they move to the top of EVERYONE’S TBR list. Immediately. Even though the series starts when the characters are in middle school, the books follow their lives all through high school, until the summer before college. With a cast of lovable characters and multiple points of view, these books will appeal to anyone (and EVERYONE!!) 

Porch Swing Girl—okay, yes, this is my book, but it (hopefully) checks off all of the boxes. It’s clean, inspirational, and (hopefully) enjoyable. It released just a few weeks ago, and, since it’s my official “book baby,” I had to mention it. Can’t all parents brag on their kids? 

So? Were any of your favorite books on this list? Did I miss any other amazing (clean!) books? Let me know!!

Homeschooled since kindergarten, Taylor Bennett is the seventeen-year-old author of Porch Swing Girl, which will be released by Mountain Brook Ink on May 1st. When she’s not reading or writing, Taylor can be found playing her violin or taking walks in the beautiful Oregon countryside. She loves to connect with readers via her author website, as well as Facebook, Twitter, Instagram (her favorite!), Pinterest, and Goodreads.

[Stephanie here!] Speaking of clean YA reads, Taylor just released her own! 

What if friendship cost you everything?

Stranded in Hawaii after the death of her mother, sixteen-year-old Olive Galloway is desperate to escape. She has to get back to Boston before her dad loses all common sense and sells the family house. But plane tickets cost money—something Olive gravely lacks.

With the help of Brander, the fussy youth group worship leader, and Jazz, a mysterious girl with a passion for all things Hawaiian, Olive lands a summer job at the Shave Ice Shack and launches a scheme to buy a plane ticket home before the end of the summer.

But when Jazz reveals a painful secret, Olive’s plans are challenged. Jazz needs money. A lot of it. Olive and Brander are determined to help their friend but, when their fundraising efforts are thwarted, Olive is caught in the middle. To help Jazz means giving up her ticket home. And time is running out.

Thanks for visiting the blog, Taylor! Congrats on your book release!

Wednesday, May 9, 2018

Giveaway + The Rebellion Blog Tour

I have a special guest on the blog today. Welcome, Livy Jarmusch, author of The Coronation and now--The Rebellion! 

We haven't known each other long, but already I can tell Livy is a strong spirit and a gem. Her new book is lovely and I'm thrilled to get to share it with you today! Also, I get to share something else extra special too... A GIVEAWAY! :)  

Something is brewing. Like the far off rumble of a train in the distance, a rebellion is stirring. A cry for change arises in the midst of a traditional monarchy, where King Addison has inherited the throne. Who are the underground troublemakers? What is stirring their defiant banner and demand for change? Find out in The Rebellion! (The Tales of Tarsurella #2) Vanessa Bennett lands her dream job working at the Palace in Tarsurella. She struggles to balance everything on her plate: life in a new country, stressful deadlines, crabby co-workers, college classes at the local University, and blossoming feelings of romantic adoration toward her boss–King Addison. Keeping up with her To-Do list, while trying to earn respect in Addison’s male-dominated administration, presents its challenges. Nevertheless, she can’t help but fight a reoccurring thought and the excitement rising with it: is Addison interested in her? Addison is adjusting to his new role as King. Rumors of a rebellious uprising among the youth in Tarsurella intensifies, as acts of violence and protest break out across the city. Addison is determined to uncover the hidden instigator who fearlessly blogs democracy-driven ideals with a secretive pen name. Will Addison discover and expose the fiery rebellion leader? Or will his efforts fail to stop the rebellious thoughts spreading like wildfire, causing a heartbreaking rift in his divided nation?

Livy Jarmusch is a twenty-something author, singer, and songwriter. She enjoys crafting YA fiction that is pure, lovely, inspirational, and of course, entertaining! When she's not writing, you can usually find her playing guitar, blogging, drinking peppermint tea, connecting with new friends, planning her next trip to Disney, or pinning images of Europe and Golden Retriever Puppies.

Giveaway! :) Click here to win an autographed copy of the first book in the Tarsurella series! 

Tuesday, May 1, 2018

Why Independence is Essential for Young Women

People often comment about how independent I am, which is funny because my personality is probably the farthest thing from “independent,” ever. I’m prone to fear, I’m not the toughest person physically, I don’t like talking on the phone to people I don’t know, and I’m not even good at math.

I moved out of my parent’s house when I was nineteen, but not because I wanted to. It was because my health required a drastic change of environment. As difficult as the move was, it gave me push I needed to become more self-sufficient and to take on more adventures. I’m still probably the farthest person from independent, but I am a stubborn spirit, and strengthening that stubborn spirit through independence has been one of the best things that’s ever happened to me.

Here’s some of the ways my opportunity for independence has shaped me, and why I've grown to believe self-sufficiency is essential for young women.

1) Being Independent Helps Stabilize Crazy Growing Periods

Your late teens and early twenties will be one of the biggest growing periods of your life. You’ll change more now than you ever have before. So much change may create the perfect environment for emotional crisis, but not accepting that change can be dangerous, too. By picking up some physical independence, you’ll be able to stabilize that crisis stage, while still hanging onto the healthy adjustment that it is.
You’ll begin forming your own opinions, searching out the truth, and determining where you’ll take the rest of your life. You’ll better be able to determine that with some extra independence, too. While horizons are expanding so much in your mind, let them expand just as much in your physical world. Take on some new basic tasks to keep up with your head.

2) Independence Shapes you into an Individual Person

Older women are right when they tell you that time to mature alone is essential. Learning to pay your own bills, do your own taxes, manage a budget, manage your time, build and use credit, and handle insurance companies are seriously so imperative. Not only will they teach you about life, but they’ll also teach you about who you are. There’s nothing better than a money crisis to teach you about your own resilience. Relying always on parents or a husband to do these things for you isn’t healthy, and it isn’t what’s best for you long-term. You’ll need many of these skills in the future, whether or not you want to accept it. So, give yourself the chance to embrace them.

3) Independence Gives you the Best Opportunities to Build into Others

My roommate and I have talked about this a few times. We both get called in so often to babysit for friends and family, and we have the freedom to drive a couple of states, or fly to another country to spend time with friends. I often am able to show up when a friend is in need, or when a parent needs a little extra independence of their own, and it's been such a joy to be able to do that.

4) It Might Keep you from Marrying the Wrong Person
There are good and bad marriages inside and outside of the independence spectrum, so obviously don’t live by this. However, I can imagine that simple knowledge about the world, and a little confidence in your own decisions could keep you from marrying someone who wants to blindly control you. If you know how to handle finances, you’ll know whether or not your husband is smart with his resources. If you’re confident in your own decisions, you probably won’t date or marry someone who wants to control them for you.

5) You’ll be Braver
When faced with a difficult challenge, you’ll know how to take it on. Independence puts you in so many scary situations, it makes you braver to face other tougher ones in the future. It makes you strong and resilient in the face of adversity, and it teaches you in advance how to navigate through life’s challenges. It probably feels tough, but it probably won’t be tough forever.

6) Maybe You’ll Be More Thankful

They say independence makes you thankful for all the time your parents provided for you, and it’s true. But independence will make you thankful for other things, too, like the extra bits of time you get to spend with family and friends, and the small moments you get to have to yourself. You’ll probably have less money, so independence will make you thankful for small things you can afford, or maybe the hand-me-down clothes your roommate passes on to you. Being independent will make you thankful for the moments when you feel confident enough to travel across the country on your own. It’ll make you thankful for the free days when you can wander the world without accountability. It’ll make you a better person.

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What are some things self-sufficiency has taught you? What reasons would you have for encouraging friends to embrace independence?


Monday, April 9, 2018

Productivity Tips For When You're Fighting Chronic Illness

I love reading articles, and one of my favorite topics to read about is productivity. I enjoy learning about how I can do my job better and faster—and how I can maximize my time as an author. These days, authors are required to be jacks of all trades. We’re masters of our books, but we’re also masters of marketing, social media, blogging, editing, and freelancing. It’s almost impossible to get our workload done if we’re not working smart.

As encouraging as productivity articles are for me, though, they can also be very difficult for me to process through. They’re difficult because I have lived a good portion of my life with a chronic illness, and many of the tips and tricks offered by productivity guru’s just don’t leave room for the challenges daily sickness brings.

That’s why I’ve decided to create my own list of practical tips chronic patients can use to increase their energy and productivity.

1) Wear Comfy and Well-Fitted Clothing

Living with chronic illness means you likely have to conserve energy wherever possible, and clothes have a bigger impact on your energy levels than you’d think. I used to wear a lot of skirts, but as I began to get sicker, I found myself gravitating away from them. Later I realized it was because wearing skirts, especially shorter ones, meant devoting more attention to modesty. You have to cross your legs, or slide into a chair a certain way. Every time you take a step in a longer skirt, you kick through fabric. I just didn’t have the energy to devote to that.
I also noticed I would gravitate away from clothes that were baggy, or pants that were loose around the waist. Adjusting the waistband, or collar, or sleeve of your garment multiple times per day uses up a lot of energy! Being intentional about the outfits you choose is a really practical way to conserve energy and have more leftover for work tasks, and the things you love.

2) Avoid Frustration by Switching Between Physical and Mental Tasks

As much as I wish I could go grocery shopping, cook dinners for the week, and clean the whole house in a day, that’s just not a feasible reality for me. Physical tasks drain me fast, and I get frustrated quickly on the days when they pile up. I’ve learned to take advantage of the moments I’m energized to go to the grocery store, but not be discouraged if it’s difficult to pull myself up when I get home. It’s helped me to also have a list of sit-down tasks I can do while I wait for my body to recharge. 

Instead of grouping physical tasks for the morning and writing tasks for the afternoon, I plan out an hour for cooking or cleaning, and then a two hour “recovery” period for writing or marketing tasks. Not only does this keep me productive throughout the day, but it also alleviates the frustration. Even in the tired stages, I'm still accomplishing things! It keeps me accountable with my breaks, too, and it gives me something fruitful to do instead of watching a TV show or browsing social media until I feel better. 

3) Eat Bread at 3 PM 

Sickness has taught me to listen to my body and to understand what it needs. I used to come home from work absolutely wiped, and I blamed it on, well… chronic illness. But that’s not actually the entire issue. I’ve discovered that my afternoon tiredness can be easily remedied with a simple snack break and some solid carbs. When I moved to New York to get better, one of the things I promised myself was that I’d focus on eating enough food to sustain my body before I worried about diet. That was one of the best decisions I’ve ever made and it helped SO MUCH with my recovery. 

Make sure you’re eating enough throughout the day to sustain your energy. Seriously, just have some bread and butter. You’ll feel better, and you’ll get more done.

4) Try Homeopathy for Symptom Relief

If you have a chronic illness, then you understand what it’s like to endure tests and medications for years before ever experiencing any relief from your symptoms. You probably know what it’s like to live in a world where almost nothing can help you feel better when you’re having a bad day. This can be extremely defeating and have difficult effects on your productivity.

Since homeopathy is so complicated and intricate, I don’t suggest you use it to heal the actual chronic illness. However, it’s a fantastic option for symptom relief. There are homeopathic remedies for everything. There are remedies to boost energy, mood, and relieve headaches and muscle pain, and they're much safer than popping ibuprofen. 

If you learn your homeopathy, you can use it to find relief from difficult symptoms throughout the day, while pursuing other testing and long-term treatment from your doctor. Simple knowledge about remedies will minimize your symptoms, giving you more room to focus on work tasks.

5) Understand Your Limitations

I don’t know an author who isn’t a workaholic. The most difficult thing about chronic illness for me is having to accept my limitations, and understand that I’m not going to always be able to do everything. Having chronic illness has made me more intentional about my life, and about the tasks and jobs I choose. It makes me examine everything more thoroughly.

I don’t think of myself as a sick person usually, and that can be a positive thing, but it can also be damaging. The key to living with sickness is learning the balance between not letting it defeat you, but also recognizing where you need to give yourself grace. As much as you want to be a normal person, you aren’t. And that’s okay.

Giving yourself the grace that your sickness deserves will help cut down on stress. You’ll be more excited about all you’ve accomplished, instead of kicking yourself because you can’t do more. You’ll be less overwhelmed and your performance will increase. Accepting your limitations is more healthy for your body, too. 

Let's discuss! Have you discovered any productivity hacks that help you through chronic illness? 

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